{"id":77490,"date":"2021-04-16T13:58:54","date_gmt":"2021-04-16T18:58:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=77490"},"modified":"2021-04-16T13:59:14","modified_gmt":"2021-04-16T18:59:14","slug":"frequently-asked-questions-xv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=77490","title":{"rendered":"Frequently Asked Questions XV"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It&#8217;s been a few years since I&#8217;ve done one of these.  It&#8217;s probably high time.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Why don&#8217;t you manage your comment section more thoroughly?<\/strong><br>I work a day job, a couple side hustles, I try to have some semblance of a life outside of all of them&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and, call me pollyannaish, but I wonder why I should <em>have <\/em>to?  And I know, I know &#8211; we&#8217;re all grownups, but we&#8217;re really <em>not <\/em>all grownups, either. Such is the nature of online forums &#8211; they bring out the worst in some people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What&#8217;s your comment policy?<\/strong><br>I still <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?page_id=97\">have one of those<\/a>.  I always tried to keep things simple. I summed it up in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=55827\">one of these FAQ<\/a> pieces a while back.  All I ask is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Don&#8217;t write something that\u2019ll get me in legal trouble<\/li><li>If your entire reason for being on the blog is to personally bash me &#8211; not an article, or my reasoning, but me, personally, over and over and over &#8211; then it&#8217;s not me, it&#8217;s you, and you and this blog will be parting company. <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps I&#8217;ve gotten spoiled &#8211; I haven&#8217;t had a lot of problems since about 2010.  But there you go. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Hey, you removed a comment of mine, even though (fill in name) regularly says things that are far worse.  What gives?<\/strong><br>Posting a comment doesn&#8217;t connote agreement.  What do you think I am, Sally Jo Sorenson?  But I give a lot more leeway to people I know, and have met personally.  I know where they live, at least, figuratively.  I know that they aren&#8217;t going to &#8220;Swat&#8221; me, start blogs to publicize &#8220;dirt&#8221; on me (well, try to..  There really isn&#8217;t a whole lot), or start poking at my kids.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With anonymous commenters &#8211; people I&#8217;ve never met, and likely never will &#8211; it&#8217;s a little different.  I allow anonymous and pseudonymous commenters, and nd pointedly respect their pseudonymity &#8211; until the behavior swerves to the wrong side of the risk\/reward line.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>But what about threadjacking?<\/strong><br>Yeah, I&#8217;ll whack the occasional threadjack, if it&#8217;s obnoxious enough.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>But hey &#8211; you knew &#8220;Dog Gone&#8221;.  You allowed her increasingly dissociative ranting for about a decade.  And then, <em>poof <\/em>, she was gone.  Doesn&#8217;t that contradict what you wrote above?<\/strong><br>Hardly.  I tolerated DG because it was fun watching her narrative &#8211; that conservative commenters were a bunch of idiots &#8211; get pummeled like the New York Generals.  For about a decade, it was a perfect metaphor for modern society &#8211; a &#8220;progressive&#8221; with no particular visible expertise in anything, getting factually rumbled by a comment section that includes lawyers, MDs, a literal rocket scientist, engineers and generally well-read polymaths mirrors the modern social debate pretty perfectly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then she started using the fact that she <em>had <\/em>met me, and<em> did<\/em> know my kids (when they were 1 and 3, anyway), and took a creepy turn&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;and she got flushed like a gas station burrito and tequila, the morning after.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Does a commenter violate the &#8220;Hands Off&#8221; principle?   Dog Gone did.  Other commenters who are the subject of occasional complaints never have, and I suspect never will.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s pretty much it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So that&#8217;s it?   It&#8217;s all about you?<\/strong><br>Well, in a sense, duh.  The whole blog is about me, if you think about it.  I&#8217;m the only (regular) writer.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I loathe echo chambers &#8211; as a personal matter, and a practical one.   Intellectually, I&#8217;m still pollyanna enough to think in terms of political and social engagement as a &#8220;debate&#8221;, rather than mobilizing support to &#8220;own&#8221; or destroy &#8220;the enemy&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Glad we could chat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s been a few years since I&#8217;ve done one of these. It&#8217;s probably high time. 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