{"id":74683,"date":"2020-07-20T07:09:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-20T12:09:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=74683"},"modified":"2020-07-24T13:21:04","modified_gmt":"2020-07-24T18:21:04","slug":"snappy-answers-to-casual-gaslighting-part-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=74683","title":{"rendered":"Snappy Answers To Casual Gaslighting, Part I"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8220;Silence is Violence&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No. It&#8217;s not.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Silence &#8211; if you catch me silent at all &#8211; is me keeping my mouth shut while I figure out what I think, to say nothing of what I&#8217;m going to say.   Your freedom of speech doesn&#8217;t give you the right to tell me what I&#8217;m going to say.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your response to that is &#8220;there <em>is <\/em>only one thing to say&#8221;, and that&#8217;s to agree with your point of view &#8211; then most likely you&#8217;re trying to logroll and shame people into knocking off all that pesky thinking, and just acquiescing.<sup>[1]<\/sup>   If your position is worthy, I may eventually agree with you.  Not doing so, in and of itself, doesn&#8217;t make me the immoral one. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Logically, it&#8217;s Orwellian &#8211; silence is the opposite of violence.  Morally, it&#8217;s worse than Orwellian. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your response is &#8220;that&#8217;s how Germans reacted when Jews were getting hauled off&#8221; &#8211; well, there&#8217;s your opportunity to convince me that the issue we face <em>is, <\/em>actually, that clear-cut.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If it&#8217;s not?   If there are some facets to the issue at hand over which <em>reasonable <\/em>people may debate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you were to tell a spouse or a significant other &#8220;if you&#8217;re not verbally acquiescing with my point of view, you are party to evil&#8221;, a therapist would call you an emotional abuser.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And they&#8217;d be right.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Logrolling is no substitute for a convincing argument.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, people using this form of logrolling, gaslighting chanting point aren&#8217;t trying to &#8220;convince&#8221;, and they&#8217;re not trying to provoke thought.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Silence is Violence&#8221;. No. It&#8217;s not. Silence &#8211; if you catch me silent at all &#8211; is me keeping my mouth shut while I figure out what I think, to say nothing of what I&#8217;m going to say. Your freedom of speech doesn&#8217;t give you the right to tell me what I&#8217;m going to say. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[128,37,18,51,421],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74683","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-battle-for-the-language","category-language","category-pc","category-liberal-tyranny","category-snappy-answers-to-casual-gaslighting"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74683","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=74683"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74683\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":74702,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74683\/revisions\/74702"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=74683"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=74683"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=74683"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}