{"id":71678,"date":"2019-07-03T08:03:35","date_gmt":"2019-07-03T13:03:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=71678"},"modified":"2019-07-03T08:03:35","modified_gmt":"2019-07-03T13:03:35","slug":"mistakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=71678","title":{"rendered":"Mistakes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Women decry absent fathers, deadbeat dads, lack of male role models in modern families. Liberals don&#8217;t acknowledge that&#8217;s the cause of crime because a woman is just as good a man at everything, right?<br>They forget that the massive rise in broken homes is due to no fault divorce, which feminists demanded so they could escape unfulfilling marriages. It wasn&#8217;t men using their patriarchal male-dominated muscle who pushed that through in 1975. We had Women&#8217;s Lib then. I remember when it was invented. It was women who wanted to be able to get out, no strings attached, no excuses required.\u00a0 They pushed through no-fault divorce.\u00a0 And it&#8217;s been a disaster, the shape of which we&#8217;re only now realizing.<br>In the olden days, women knew that you didn&#8217;t get things ready made, you had to work them into shape. That went from food you grew, to clothes you made, to a man you would turn into a husband. A Marriage Prospect was someone you thought you could work on to become a finished product you could live with.<br>But modern women expect things to come prepackaged and disposable. Women say &#8220;I married a man that I wanted to be Prince Charming but he turned out to be Prince Charming&#8217;s stable hand, so I want to dump him and try something else.&#8221;\u00a0 They&#8217;re not willing to put in the effort. Maybe don&#8217;t even have the skills to put in the effort. And all of society has changed from telling them to put in the effort, to telling them to walk away.<br>Walking away from an unfulfilling marriage might make a woman feel better about herself, but it tells us nothing about how the kids will turn out.\u00a0 Not worth the effort?\u00a0 What does that say to a kid? How does it affect the kids outlook on relationships, willing to trust, commitment to long-term effort?\u00a0 Read Judith Wallerstein.\u00a0 She&#8217;s eye opening, sobering, depressing. <br>Which politician will speak Truth to Power and tell feminists &#8220;You were wrong and you made things worse.\u00a0 We&#8217;re leaving what sounds good and going back to what works.&#8221;<br>Joe Doakes<br><br><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Which politicians?  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Among today&#8217;s &#8220;progressives&#8221;?  Expect the &#8220;men are just sperm donors&#8221; line to just get worse until it can&#8217;t be sustained any more .<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Women decry absent fathers, deadbeat dads, lack of male role models in modern families. Liberals don&#8217;t acknowledge that&#8217;s the cause of crime because a woman is just as good a man at everything, right?They forget that the massive rise in broken homes is due to no fault divorce, which feminists demanded so they could escape [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71678","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-men-and-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71678","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=71678"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71678\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":71679,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71678\/revisions\/71679"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=71678"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=71678"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=71678"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}