{"id":71636,"date":"2019-06-28T06:00:19","date_gmt":"2019-06-28T11:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=71636"},"modified":"2019-06-27T21:26:52","modified_gmt":"2019-06-28T02:26:52","slug":"damned-if-the-u-of-m-does-doesnt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=71636","title":{"rendered":"Damned If The U Of M Does, Doesn&#8217;t"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Program at the U of M helps transgender women&#8230;sound like women&#8230;:<\/p>\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8220;Every time [&#8220;Alice&#8221;, the transgender woman who is one of this story&#8217;s subjects]  called [her grandmother] in high school, she would say, &#8216;Oh, your voice is getting deeper, you sound like you&#8217;re growing into such a nice man, you&#8217;re going to be like your dad,'&#8221; Alice said.<br>Those were painful words to hear [<em>of course they were<\/em> &#8211; Ed]. Alice remembers artificially raising the pitch of her voice to thwart her grandmother&#8217;s comments.<br>It wasn&#8217;t until years later that Alice realized she was transgender. She started to publicly transition during her senior year in college. She&#8217;s 23 now and recently graduated from a speech therapy program that helps transgender people safely adjust how they speak, so they can sound more like themselves.<br>&#8220;I&#8217;m at a point where for like 90 plus percent of the time, I&#8217;m happy with how I sound and how I&#8217;m perceived by other people,&#8221; Alice said. &#8220;This is something I never expected to be in a position of. And it&#8217;s really exciting.&#8221;<br><br><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;but only the kind of women they approve of:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Alice did adopt some behaviors, such as using her hands differently when she spoke. But she refused to fall in line with gender norms she thought were antiquated or offensive.<br> &#8220;I am a feminist. I&#8217;m going to act like it. Just because this is a typical feminine behavior, if it is just a very patriarchal, like trying to silence and subdue women, I&#8217;m not going to do that,&#8221; Alice said. &#8220;It&#8217;s not worth it.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Wait&#8217;ll the Progressive Powers that Be learn that people think they can turn their intesectional triggers on and off.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She&#8217;ll never do lunch in the Warehouse District again. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Program at the U of M helps transgender women&#8230;sound like women&#8230;: &#8220;Every time [&#8220;Alice&#8221;, the transgender woman who is one of this story&#8217;s subjects] called [her grandmother] in high school, she would say, &#8216;Oh, your voice is getting deeper, you sound like you&#8217;re growing into such a nice man, you&#8217;re going to be like your [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-71636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture-war","category-men-and-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=71636"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71636\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":71647,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/71636\/revisions\/71647"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=71636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=71636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=71636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}