{"id":3683,"date":"2008-11-22T18:28:23","date_gmt":"2008-11-22T23:28:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=3683"},"modified":"2008-11-22T19:17:59","modified_gmt":"2008-11-23T00:17:59","slug":"things-im-thankful-for-this-holiday-season","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=3683","title":{"rendered":"Things I&#8217;m Thankful For This Holiday Season"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is so much stuff I&#8217;m thankful for, honestly<\/p>\n<p>One of them is that my world isn&#8217;t so utterly, pathetically, hatefully\u00a0small that I <a href=\"http:\/\/thecuckingstool.blogspot.com\/2008\/11\/ze-people-who-throw-za-stones.html\">get off on the kinds of things Steve &#8220;Spotty&#8221; Timmer seems to<\/a>. Steve is upset because, after years of being able to slime people (including <a href=\"http:\/\/thecuckingstool.blogspot.com\/2008\/01\/spot-car-ride-take-iv.html\">his neighbors<\/a>) from the cover of his precious anonymity, my friend Swiftee <a href=\"#comment-40229\">outed him in the comment section of this blog last week<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>As a part of his job (about which more below), Mr. Timmer has the ability to find, and misuse, all sorts of information.\u00a0 And he&#8217;s pretty sure he has a bunch of it.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Oh all right. Tings like criminal operation of a motor vehicle, and za probation violation. And ja judgments for unpaid bills! Tings like multiple drunken driving convictions. Tings like driving mit out za license. Za blogging on company time; za trash house chronicles and za failure to support za pups.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Timmer refers to &#8220;glass houses&#8221; in his piece, apparently oblivious to the cheap irony; <em>I&#8217;ve always used my real name, <\/em>with all that that&#8217;s entailed in terms of &#8220;public risk&#8221;.\u00a0He&#8217;s the one who&#8217;s always felt he had stuff to hide.\u00a0 (More cheap irony; I met him earlier this year at Flash&#8217;s place.\u00a0 We actually hit it off pretty well.\u00a0 As I noted at the time, when I meet bloggers I disagree with, it&#8217;s usually much easier for me to treat them as humans rather than cheap stereotypes; Timmer apparently didn&#8217;t feel that way, taking some really cheap shots at me shortly thereafter.\u00a0 I made noises about &#8220;outing&#8221; &#8220;him&#8221; at the time &#8211; and got a panicky-sounding email from him, all but begging me <em>not <\/em>to &#8220;out&#8221; his precious identity; he<em>\u00a0 really really preferred to remain anonyous<\/em>.\u00a0 The cheapest irony of all?\u00a0 I hadn&#8217;t actually heard his name at Flash&#8217;s, and had at that point no idea who he was).<\/p>\n<p>Since I&#8217;ve <em>always <\/em>blogged under my real name, every wart on my public record <em>is <\/em>pretty much available for the asking &#8211; so kudos to Steve&#8217;s awesome investigative chops!\u00a0 And yep &#8211; I&#8217;ve had a wart or two.\u00a0 Maybe we&#8217;ll touch on a couple of &#8217;em in the next day or two, if Timmer really <em>is <\/em>as <em>nekulturnii <\/em>as he says &#8220;he&#8217;ll&#8221; be.<\/p>\n<p>But I can say I&#8217;m proud about a couple of things, and do it with a straight face.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a big one &#8211; while I&#8217;ve mixed it up the &#8220;opposition&#8221; pretty gleefully (and for the most part they, like Timmer, deserve the &#8220;irony quotes&#8221;), I&#8217;ve upheld one standard; I&#8217;ve left other peoples&#8217; families and livelihoods out of my blog.\u00a0 Nobody &#8211; <em>nobody<\/em>, even gutless trolls like Timmer or Diane &#8220;Minnesota Observer&#8221; Gerth, deserves to have their families or their livelihoods attacked over what is, at the end of the day, a hobby.\u00a0 I&#8217;ve upheld the Golden Rule, treating others the way I&#8217;d hope to be treated; I have no problem with people mixing it up with my politics,\u00a0my choice in guitars, my taste in baseball &#8211; I am more than a match for anyone on any of those topics.\u00a0 And on the other hand, I&#8217;ve kept my hands off of other peoples&#8217; families, private lives, jobs and outside-of-blogging lives pretty religiously.<\/p>\n<p>And I&#8217;ll continue to.<\/p>\n<p>Because I <em>am <\/em>better than that.<\/p>\n<p>And by &#8220;that&#8221;, I mean &#8220;I&#8217;m a better writer <em>and<\/em> a better man than Steve &#8220;Spotty&#8221;\u00a0Timmer&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0And that&#8217;ll be true <em>no matter what <\/em>Timmer and his little pack of gutless anonymous trolls think they can pull out.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is so much stuff I&#8217;m thankful for, honestly One of them is that my world isn&#8217;t so utterly, pathetically, hatefully\u00a0small that I get off on the kinds of things Steve &#8220;Spotty&#8221; Timmer seems to. 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