{"id":3052,"date":"2008-08-12T07:30:14","date_gmt":"2008-08-12T12:30:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=3052"},"modified":"2010-02-08T19:30:17","modified_gmt":"2010-02-09T00:30:17","slug":"when-the-mind-cant-get-any-bogglier","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=3052","title":{"rendered":"When The Mind Can&#8217;t Get Any Bogglier"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>UPDATE 2\/8\/2010 &#8211; Greetings, visitors from &#8220;Also Spake Zustra!&#8221;\u00a0 I have a special message for you at the bottom of this post:<\/p>\n<p>Original post follows:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t read the blog &#8220;Feministing&#8221; for <a href=\"http:\/\/community.feministing.com\/2008\/08\/ferminist-fuck-you-friday-john.html\">reasoned, rational commentary<\/a> (via <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2008\/08\/profanity-is-super-sexy-and-not.html\">KAR<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>Indeed, I rarely read it at all.<\/p>\n<p>As the Twin Cities&#8217; best feminist, it&#8217;s depressing, really, to see the perversions that pass for &#8220;Feminism&#8221; among some of these people.<\/p>\n<p>But you learn to accept that as a given after a while.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s funny, though, is catching the occasional dispatch from Cloud Nine.<\/p>\n<p>Academic humanities departments,nationwide, are solidly left-of-center, politically and socially.  While my English major advisor indeed, started me on the road to conservatism, we were both outliers.  It&#8217;s entirely possible to go through a career in humanities, I suspect, and ever have to confront conservatism as anything but a set of stereotypes that you mock with your colleagues.<\/p>\n<p>So <a href=\"http:\/\/community.feministing.com\/2008\/08\/facing-conservative-students.html#more\">this bit here<\/a>, from a Teaching Assistant at an unnamed graduate program, is interesting; it&#8217;s a cry from the heart of a woman having to face&#8230;people who approach the world differently than her.<\/p>\n<p>And it&#8217;s heart-rending indeed:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I&#8217;m a graduate student, teaching a freshman-level writing class. I&#8217;ve been a feminist pretty much from the moment my mom popped me out. Anyway, I always lived in a bubble&#8211;thinking that the way I thought was simple common sense. Women are equal. Birth control is good. Yada yada yada. I realized as a I grew up, however, that the liberal home life I knew was not the reality for the rest of my peers.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Of course, for many people that can be a growth experience.<\/p>\n<p>Question for the class: How did\/does our author perceive this?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>And then, last fall, I began teaching composition to university freshmen. My students are, by and large, white, affluent, politically and religiously conservative. To many of them, feminism is a bad word and young, female teachers are pushovers and useless.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>To be fair to the students, if this post is any indication, it may not be a group assessment.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Maybe it&#8217;s the age gap, as I am 26 to their 18. Maybe it&#8217;s the cultural gap, as I am in the deep-South, but spent most of my formative years in more urban, liberal regions of the globe. There are a lot of maybes here.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Yes, indeed.  Let&#8217;s keep going:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Maybe you are a cultural bigot.<\/li>\n<li>Maybe your preening sense of entitlement has left you believing that it&#8217;s your way or the highway.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It&#8217;s a start.<\/p>\n<p>I loved this bit:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I was making my rounds amongst my students, assisting them at their computers, answering questions, etc. I was sharing an anecdote with a student about my own writing\/process, and she (SHE!) asked me what my focus was. I told her&#8211;technology and feminist scholarship&#8211;and then&#8230; the eyes. I heard a short intake of breath. Her eyes grew wide. &#8220;Oh my god! Are you a feminist!?&#8221; She said the word feminist just the way I say &#8220;rapist.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I nodded.  &#8220;Yes, I am.  Equal rights are a great thing.&#8221;  She laughed awkwardly, and I moved on.<\/p>\n<p>Who told this young woman that feminism is a bad thing? Seriously&#8211;who? She&#8217;s a bright woman. She was a fantastic student. But just the same&#8211;to her, what I am, is a monster. I don&#8217;t feel particularly monstrous.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And she&#8217;s not.  What she is is a caricature &#8211; so much so that a small part of me still thinks &#8220;she&#8221; is a parody.  Feminism &#8211; gender identity feminism, to be exact, and as distinct from equity feminism, which is what I believe in &#8211; has become a caricature, a caricature that real, &#8220;bright women&#8221; and &#8220;fantastic students&#8221;, the people who will go on to productive lives in business, government, society and\/or family as they choose, mock without mercy.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a bottomless wellspring of material for some of us.  So I&#8217;m gladdened to see&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>And next Monday, a whole new round begins&#8211;and this year, I&#8217;m doing more socially-conscious assignments than last year. Could be interesting. But I realize now, that if I don&#8217;t ask them pointed questions about how they view the world (be it television, themselves, etc), no one else will, either.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>&#8230;that not only is the caricature continuing, but it&#8217;s growing:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>They&#8217;ve already made it 18 years without challenging the status quo. Imagine that.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>By <em>not<\/em> becoming Mao-frenching, entitlement-mongering semiotics-of-identity zombies under the influence of the author and the vast majority of her colleagues, they are pantsing the status quo.<\/p>\n<p>Kudos to them.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>SPECIAL ADDENDUM FOR &#8220;ZUSTRA&#8221; READERS: Yeah, my whole &#8220;Twin Cities&#8217; Best Feminist&#8221; bit really got under some peoples&#8217; skins.\u00a0 Can they not see how absurdly they were being played?\u00a0 &#8220;Best&#8221; Feminist?\u00a0 Really?<\/p>\n<p>And yet it&#8217;s kept the same pack of mental midgets (of both purported genders) howling with rage for years, now.\u00a0 As if on cue.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m trying to find a concept as smug, tautological and dim-witted as &#8220;mansplainer&#8221; to apply to these &#8211; words fail &#8211; simpering infants who can&#8217;t accept the idea that there&#8217;s a rational B-side to their ideas.\u00a0 But I can&#8217;t think of anything <em>that <\/em>dumb.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, thanks for stopping!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>UPDATE 2\/8\/2010 &#8211; Greetings, visitors from &#8220;Also Spake Zustra!&#8221;\u00a0 I have a special message for you at the bottom of this post: Original post follows: &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;- I don&#8217;t read the blog &#8220;Feministing&#8221; for reasoned, rational commentary (via KAR). Indeed, I rarely read it at all. As the Twin Cities&#8217; best feminist, it&#8217;s depressing, really, to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,27],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3052","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-education","category-men-and-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3052","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3052"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3052\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8548,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3052\/revisions\/8548"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3052"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3052"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3052"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}