{"id":1460,"date":"2007-10-17T17:09:11","date_gmt":"2007-10-17T22:09:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=1460"},"modified":"2011-11-21T11:49:35","modified_gmt":"2011-11-21T17:49:35","slug":"unpleasant-civility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=1460","title":{"rendered":"Unpleasant Civility"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m a pretty normal guy. I&#8217;m 44, I live in an old house in Saint Paul with a couple kids, two cats and a dog. I drive a four-door but I&#8217;d rather bike. I like good beer, play guitar and a slew of other instruments, have the odd date, meet my friends at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.keeganspub.com\">Keegans&#8217;<\/a> when I can &#8211; you know. Pretty normal stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, when I was 16 I started working in radio. Now, working part-time at a station in North Dakota is the laxest possible definition of &#8220;public figure&#8221; that can exist in nature &#8211; but even then and there (and over my next years, as my career took me to the Twin Cities), some of the wierdness that attends &#8220;public&#8221; life caught up with me.  The anti-semitic calls  and threats (although I&#8217;m not remotely Jewish, the &#8220;Berg&#8221; name irks some); the occasional lonely person with weird ideas, the people who can&#8217;t take disagreement in stride &#8211; I&#8217;ve been through &#8217;em all.  And I&#8217;ve pretty much ignored them.  Because they&#8217;re pretty much idiots.<\/p>\n<p>Over the last few years, I&#8217;ve duked it out with the people who run the &#8220;Dump Bachmann&#8221; blog.  I don&#8217;t pay &#8217;em a lot of attention &#8211; with their fevered tone and breathless conspiracy-mongering and seeing spies in the bushes, they&#8217;re like a homegrown Democrat Underground, and pretty much a laughingstock among real bloggers and media.  They&#8217;re the kinds of thing best ignored (except for Michele Bachmann; knowing that such a bunch of tinfoil-hatted whoopdidoos were stalking her, I&#8217;m fairly convinced, was worth at least a point in Bachmann&#8217;s victory last November &#8211; the best showing by a Republican on the top rail of results.<\/p>\n<p>So at worst, they&#8217;re a mixed blessing.  As a rule.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve also <a href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com\/search?hl=en&#038;q=%22Ken+avidor%22+site%3Awww.shotinthedark.info&#038;btnG=Google+Search\">pretty much dismissed<\/a> Ken Weiner, AKA &#8220;Ken Avidor&#8221;.  I dismiss him because he&#8217;s pretty dismissable.  A <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pulsetc.com\/article.php?sid=2371\">former art director<\/a> at a pr0n mag even other pr0n merchants giggle at with derision, it&#8217;s not hard to see why even Tom Swift has better cartooning chops.<\/p>\n<p>A while ago &#8211; before the September 15 counterprotest I helped organize with the folks at True North &#8211; I got an anonymous email from someone at a Google IP address:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Crazy Ken Avidor is planning upon coming to your counter protest with his cameras, specifically to get pictures of you.  I know this on a first hand basis.  He&#8217;s a f*cking moron, don&#8217;t give him any fodder.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=1310\">responded at the time<\/a> &#8211; <em>if you want to talk to me, just ask<\/em>.  I&#8217;ll take on all comers, because &#8211; depending on who you are and what your motivations are &#8211; I either have no trouble talking across ideological divides (hence I had a great time <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=739\">talking on MPR<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/archives\/003613.html\">with Chuck Olson<\/a> in the past few months), or I&#8217;m just plain smarter than you and dealing with your arguments is child&#8217;s play (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=592\">certain other adversaries<\/a> that shall remain nameless), which is kinda sad considering I&#8217;m really no great shakes in the &#8220;brain&#8221; department myself.<\/p>\n<p>But no matter; Avidor showed up, camera in hand (I&#8217;d left), and posted this <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/?p=1310\">little brain fart<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Now, nobody&#8217;s under any obligation to ask &#8220;hey, mind if I film you&#8221;, although it&#8217;s generally considered good form by reputable videographers and journalists.  Which Avidor, of course, is not.<\/p>\n<p>Last week, Avidor posted the &#8220;big scoop&#8221; &#8211; that I have been known to <em>edit Wikipedia entries<\/em>.  This is, of course, something that&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Special:Contributions\/Mitchberg\">pretty publicly available<\/a>.  Avidor leapt about like a poo-flinging monkey yapping about the fact that I&#8217;ve written, in the past, about the likes of Ed Morrissey, Hugh Hewitt, and the Northern Alliance &#8211; without bothering to actually note if anything I wrote was <em>wrong <\/em>or anything, of course, or whether any of that Wiki editing took place in a men&#8217;s room at the airport.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m always inclined to ignore this kind of obsessive niggling; I let it go the way of the rantings of the dissociative guy at the back of the bus who skipped his meds.<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, Learned Foot at Kool Aid Report has <em>not <\/em>been so inclined.  He&#8217;s showed, so far this week, that Avidor <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/middle-aged-nutjob-blogger-has-undies.html\">observe a curious double-standard<\/a> about <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/why-wont-eva-young-ken-avidor-come.html\">his Wiki obsessions<\/a>, that he <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/anti-car-nutball-avidor-gets-run-over.html\">handles criticism with all the grace of Marie Antoinette<\/a>, he <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/update-nutjob-anticar-freak-blogger.html\">lied about the responses<\/a> (one needn&#8217;t &#8220;have a cow&#8221; to crush a target as trivially simple as Avidor) and <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/when-left-wing-attack-bloggers-are.html\">tried to ignore it all when Foot busted him<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/koolaidreport.blogspot.com\/2007\/10\/blogger-weiner-tries-to-play-six.html\">concluded with some advice<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I wonder if Blogger Berg and Blogger Swiftee are considering swearing out a restraining order yet. This guy is obviously unstable.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This last was over <a href=\"http:\/\/www.democraticunderground.com\/discuss\/duboard.php?az=view_all&#038;address=160x27656\">this bit<\/a> &#8211; in which Avidor crosses the line from &#8220;demented idiot&#8221; to &#8220;borderline stalker&#8221;, apparently hiding in the bushes and (unlike Michele Bachmann) <em>actually <\/em>spying and taking pictures of people.<\/p>\n<p>The obvious response is &#8211; nothing.  Let him slither through the bushes with his little camera.  I&#8217;ve done nothing in my life that I can&#8217;t take in front of the whole world (like, say, work at a pr0n magazine and participate in the victimization of women).  I&#8217;ve run into people like Avidor before, and they&#8217;re nothing to worry about &#8211; they don&#8217;t have the balls <em>or <\/em>the brains to do anything <em>but <\/em>slither about and heckle impotently (just check out the traffic on the DU post.  I doubt Avidor has the capacity to be embarassed).<\/p>\n<p>So let me know when he does something that rises to the level of &#8220;would matter to vertebrates&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m a pretty normal guy. I&#8217;m 44, I live in an old house in Saint Paul with a couple kids, two cats and a dog. I drive a four-door but I&#8217;d rather bike. I like good beer, play guitar and a slew of other instruments, have the odd date, meet my friends at Keegans&#8217; when [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[31,44],"tags":[174],"class_list":["post-1460","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blogs","category-stupid","tag-stalkers"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1460","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1460"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1460\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24500,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1460\/revisions\/24500"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1460"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1460"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.shotinthedark.info\/wp\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1460"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}